Hi The Man Dem! Right, I'm a 23 year old woman and have been with my boyfriend for 7 months now and we get on really well, we like the same music, go out raving together and all that and when we first started going out it was fantastic in the bedroom. For about the last 6 weeks though, every time it comes to having nookie he never wants to spend any time on foreplay...
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It's almost like he can't be bothered or thinks that now he's got me he doesn't have to put any effort in. What is it with you guys, why do you think you can just be like 'wham bam thank you mam'? Do you think he's bored of me or what?
Reply from The Man Dem
Okay, here's my honest opinion. Sometimes the man dem just want to have a 'release'. Don't get me wrong from time to time we go through all that 'lovey dovey' romance shit to keep the woman happy and sometimes it's nice to get a good session of foreplay in... sometimes. but bear in mind that 99% of the man dem out there are wondering whether they've done enough foreplay to get you turned on enough and really just want get down to business.
No foreplay at all though is a problem. If he's avoiding kissing you and touching you (apart from his dick) and shit like that, maybe he just doesn't like you anymore and is just trying to satisfy his sexual needs. Sorry babe! Are YOU satisfying HIM in the bedroom or are you #3 The Starfish?
~Cee
To the rest of the man dem (and girls dem) out there... help her out and comment below!
