Even if your game level matches that of a player, ignoring these turn offs can be detrimental to your game. These repel women in the same way a bitchy woman repels you with her attitude.
Makes sense? Of course it does. Now let’s look at the top 10 major turn offs for women...
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Make sure keep these in mind the next time you go out and who knows, you might just be able to pull something. Don’t take this article as cliche, take for what it really is, a reminder.
1. Horrible/Dirty Shoes
If you ever had a girlfriend or at least a female friend you’ve probably noticed that she had more shoes than socks and undies put together. This not only tells us that women love to have shoes but it also tells us that women pay attention to shoes.
This means that if you wear dirty, unmatched, poor quality, horrible shoes, you will tend to repel women like crazy. Women aren’t actually that shallow but first impressions do count and unless you spit hard quality game or it’s dark in the venue, you might not be able to get away with this. Get yourself a pair of expensive shoes, they last a lot longer anyway, keep them clean and at least you’ll be looking good the next time you approach a woman.
2. Bad Smells
There’s no bigger turn off in the world, for both men and women, than bad breath or bad body odor. Why would anyone date somebody with a stinky mouth? Why would anyone date somebody that doesn’t seem to like water? Exactly…
Keep yourself fresh at all times, even if you’re just popping out to the store. If you’ve got halitosis, keep your mouth fresh at all times, you never know when you might encounter someone.
3. Being Wasted
We all know that alcohol helps us loose our inhibitions but there’s never a reason for letting things get out of control. Being wasted in the presence of a woman only tells her that you’re a drunk. Keep your act together, nobody likes to talk to a person that slurs his words and spits slobber during a conversation.
4. Public Humiliation
As I’ve said on many occasions, persistence is key but persisting so much until you get shot down loudly and publicly is never a good idea.
Some might say that this scenario is impossible to avoid, on the contrary. If you make an approach and she shuts you down, make sure you smile and look as if you’ve just had a pleasurable experience and walk away with grace. It does not matter how she shuts you down, you can always end the conversation with “I understand. It was a pleasure meeting you”. This will not only make her feel like crap but it will also reduce the chances of public humiliation.
5. Negative Attitude
No woman wants a guy that will constantly depress her. We score when we manage to make women feel good, if you’ve got a negative vibe and you aren’t making her feel good, there’s no chance in hell that you’ll ever get to see what’s in her pants.
6. Cockiness
Although cockiness works with girls under 21-22, after that age women get bored with it. Acting cocky only shows your narcissistic personality. Remember, women want to be impressed and made to feel good with pleasant conversation. A guy that’s just talking about how great he is, is just a guy that’s showing a girl how bad he is.
7. No Space
Ever found yourself across a room looking at a sleazy guy getting close to a woman and feeling her disgust deep within your stomach? Well, that’s the same thing you’re doing when you’re all up in her face. You don’t need to be sleazy, space invading is a major turn off.
Yes, you should touch her, yes you should eventually get in close, but all in good time. Talk for a while, feel the vibe, let her give you the space herself. NEVER INVADE if you ever expect to score.
8. Retard Friends
I’m sure you’ve got a few, we all do. The problem is that women and people in general tend to associate one with their posse. If you’re posse is full of loud drunks you’ll never be able to convince a girl otherwise. If you’re going out to meet women, the key is to bring friends (if any) that won’t destroy your image. Keep your other friends for the “going out and getting wasted nights” when you plan on doing nothing but that.
9. Not Being A Real Man
Real men don’t get offended easily, real men aren’t defensive, real men are not overly in tune with their feelings. If you find yourself doing any of the above, it’s quite evident that you’re not a real man and women will feel it. Don’t let yourself or at least don’t let her see that her rejection/insult/whatever is getting to you. Instead, return the favor and you’ll soon see that real men get laid a whole lot more often.
10. Lack of Confidence
I’ve kept this for last because it’s probably one of the most important things. Lack of confidence or insecurity is guaranteed to help you fail with women. Unfortunately, confidence isn’t given which is why you need to work on this skill in order to master it.
However, every attempt you do brings you closer to a more confident state. The key to success is to keep on doing/ keep on approaching until it becomes absolutely natural. Once you reach that state, women will be attracted to you naturally, the women around those women will see, and even more women will be attracted to you. It’s a never ending circle of success.
This is the sort of stuff I discuss on my blog and in the free eBook I give out. If you want to increase your success with women, visit http://ThePlayerGuide.com – a place where the dating mindset is thrown out the window in favor of more direct and fruitful methods of meeting and seducing women.
1. Horrible/Dirty Shoes
If you ever had a girlfriend or at least a female friend you’ve probably noticed that she had more shoes than socks and undies put together. This not only tells us that women love to have shoes but it also tells us that women pay attention to shoes.
This means that if you wear dirty, unmatched, poor quality, horrible shoes, you will tend to repel women like crazy. Women aren’t actually that shallow but first impressions do count and unless you spit hard quality game or it’s dark in the venue, you might not be able to get away with this. Get yourself a pair of expensive shoes, they last a lot longer anyway, keep them clean and at least you’ll be looking good the next time you approach a woman.
2. Bad Smells
Keep yourself fresh at all times, even if you’re just popping out to the store. If you’ve got halitosis, keep your mouth fresh at all times, you never know when you might encounter someone.
3. Being Wasted
We all know that alcohol helps us loose our inhibitions but there’s never a reason for letting things get out of control. Being wasted in the presence of a woman only tells her that you’re a drunk. Keep your act together, nobody likes to talk to a person that slurs his words and spits slobber during a conversation.
4. Public Humiliation
As I’ve said on many occasions, persistence is key but persisting so much until you get shot down loudly and publicly is never a good idea.
Some might say that this scenario is impossible to avoid, on the contrary. If you make an approach and she shuts you down, make sure you smile and look as if you’ve just had a pleasurable experience and walk away with grace. It does not matter how she shuts you down, you can always end the conversation with “I understand. It was a pleasure meeting you”. This will not only make her feel like crap but it will also reduce the chances of public humiliation.
5. Negative Attitude
No woman wants a guy that will constantly depress her. We score when we manage to make women feel good, if you’ve got a negative vibe and you aren’t making her feel good, there’s no chance in hell that you’ll ever get to see what’s in her pants.
6. Cockiness
Although cockiness works with girls under 21-22, after that age women get bored with it. Acting cocky only shows your narcissistic personality. Remember, women want to be impressed and made to feel good with pleasant conversation. A guy that’s just talking about how great he is, is just a guy that’s showing a girl how bad he is.
7. No Space
Ever found yourself across a room looking at a sleazy guy getting close to a woman and feeling her disgust deep within your stomach? Well, that’s the same thing you’re doing when you’re all up in her face. You don’t need to be sleazy, space invading is a major turn off.
Yes, you should touch her, yes you should eventually get in close, but all in good time. Talk for a while, feel the vibe, let her give you the space herself. NEVER INVADE if you ever expect to score.
I’m sure you’ve got a few, we all do. The problem is that women and people in general tend to associate one with their posse. If you’re posse is full of loud drunks you’ll never be able to convince a girl otherwise. If you’re going out to meet women, the key is to bring friends (if any) that won’t destroy your image. Keep your other friends for the “going out and getting wasted nights” when you plan on doing nothing but that.
9. Not Being A Real Man
Real men don’t get offended easily, real men aren’t defensive, real men are not overly in tune with their feelings. If you find yourself doing any of the above, it’s quite evident that you’re not a real man and women will feel it. Don’t let yourself or at least don’t let her see that her rejection/insult/whatever is getting to you. Instead, return the favor and you’ll soon see that real men get laid a whole lot more often.
10. Lack of Confidence
I’ve kept this for last because it’s probably one of the most important things. Lack of confidence or insecurity is guaranteed to help you fail with women. Unfortunately, confidence isn’t given which is why you need to work on this skill in order to master it.
However, every attempt you do brings you closer to a more confident state. The key to success is to keep on doing/ keep on approaching until it becomes absolutely natural. Once you reach that state, women will be attracted to you naturally, the women around those women will see, and even more women will be attracted to you. It’s a never ending circle of success.
This is the sort of stuff I discuss on my blog and in the free eBook I give out. If you want to increase your success with women, visit http://ThePlayerGuide.com – a place where the dating mindset is thrown out the window in favor of more direct and fruitful methods of meeting and seducing women.
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