Most commonly referred to as “shit” tests, these are used by women all over the world in order to weed out weak men. As we already know, women love to play games...
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...and this is just one example of a so called game that allows them to distinguish your average Joe that’s going to land into her friend zone, from your average player that’s going to get a better look at her panties.
In this article I’m going to exemplify some of the most common tests women will use, their reasoning and explanations on how to deal with them like a pro.
#1 “Are you a player?…because you look like one”
What does she want to find out with this? As you probably knew already, girls DON’T like players, or at least that’s what they think. In any case, straight up asking about this will allow her to make a judgment call about you as a person which she can then use to decide whether or not you’re worth some emotional investment.
How to play it like a pro: Just tell her “Well, I try my best to meet new people when I’m single, how else am I going to get a girlfriend?”
#2 “How many girls have you slept with?”
Timeless classic, before we get to the reasoning I just want to point out that many guys are also very curious about the girls number. If you ever expect to be with a girl, try to avoid asking this question. And if you’re a girl reading this, if you’re under 25 say 1 or 2. If you’re over 25 get to a maximum of 5.
What does she want to find out with this? Many more things than she realizes. She thinks she wants to know if you’re a player, and a huge number will tell her that. But, at the same time, she wants to know if there’s a decent number because that means you’ve been desired by other women and therefore could be a potential mate. It’s funny how preselection works even on a subconscious level.
How to play it like a pro: Regardless of the truth, go with a decent number between 7 and 12 depending on your age. You could also act mysterious and deny answering the question as if you don’t keep count. Whatever you do make it seem truthful. If you’ve actually been with 7 to 12 women, say your real number. Finally, if you feel funny that night, tell her that you’re a virgin. She’ll obviously know it’s not real but you’ll have a funny way of deflecting the question.
#3 “Why are you talking to me?”
What does she want to find out with this? This is the type of girl that probably gets approached a lot by all sorts of average dudes. She’s testing you to see if you’re exactly like them. You need to stand out from the pack.
How to play it like a pro: The average guy would say “because you look gorgeous”…you need to be different. Look straight into her eyes and tell her that she looked interesting and that you wanted to see if those looks actually matched her personality.
#4 “I don’t give out my number to strangers”
What is she doing here? She’s playing hard to get.
How to play it like a pro: She’s only testing you to see if you’re going to give up too easily. Keep pushing her a little more and build some more rapport. I usually make jokes about the strangers thing by playing with what I’ve told her about me and what she told me about herself, thus drawing a conclusion on how could we actually call each other strangers when in fact we know this much about each other.
If you know nothing about the girl and she knows nothing about you, you’re failing because you’re asking for her number way too early. As I’ve said on countless occasions, a number that is not solid, is a useless number anyway.
#5 “Give me your number and I’ll call you?”
Why is she saying this? Another timeless classic which proves the point I made above. If you do not build enough rapport (talk enough to impress or get to know each other) she’ll have no reason to give you her number. If she does, you can bet your ass that number isn’t solid anyway. If she’s saying that, she might actually like you but you just have to try a bit harder to get it.
How to play it like a pro: You need to build more rapport on the spot, to give her more reasons to like you and thus be convinced that she can give you her number. Once you think you’ve done that, say this “Ok, I have to go (or whatever) how about you give me your number, I’ll drop call you now so you have my number then I’ll text you tomorrow (or whenever, but specify time).”
Things You Need To Know When Dealing With These Tests
She isn’t anything special, so walking away is a very good option – Way too many guys imagine relationships and happy lives before they even speak to a woman. Putting chicks on pedestals will only get you in the friendzone. If she’s giving you these tests and you think you’re either failing or you just had enough games for the night, don’t be afraid to walk away. The next approach is going to be a lot better.You don’t always have to answer – As I’ve mentioned in the “how many girls have you slept with test”, you’re never obliged to answer to her questions. At the end of the day, who is she to ask you this? Plus answering her questions puts her in control, a place where you don’t want to end up in. You can politely deflect any question, something you should always try to do.
Change your approach – If you’ve successfully avoided one of her tests, quickly change the subject onto her. It doesn’t have to be related to anything she said or tested you with, just make sure you switch it. Often times it can come out as funny and is a great way to distance yourself from the initial test.
Final Thoughts:
Don’t react emotionally –Whatever you do, don’t snap at her because that will destroy all your chances. It’s better to walk away proud than to walk away after a meltdown.
Don’t be needy – Answering her every question, letting her be in control, playing along all the way to the very end, just shows her that you’re needy and desperate, willing to do anything to get a chance of getting in her pants. You need to take control and keep her on the edge, she’ll be stunned she finally found a guy that can put her in her place.Always try to evade or use humour when answering her question – Never answer her questions directly as again, that will just put her in control. If she catches you off guard, pause for a second, think about something and then say it.
Unfortunately, these tests have been on this world since the first cave woman was asked to visit the first caveman’s cave. Well maybe not that early but the point is, women have always used tests as a way to screen out weak men. The best defense you’ll ever have against such tests is practice, experience and a little bit of wits.
This is the sort of stuff I discuss on my blog and in the free eBook I give out. If you want to increase your success with women, visit http://ThePlayerGuide.com – a place where the dating mindset is thrown out the window in favor of more direct and fruitful methods of meeting and seducing women.
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